Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would work for both of you. When you are the listener, show up with an interested and curious attitude. Be careful not to interrupt. After one of you has answered the questions, turn the tables and give the other partner their chance.
Have fun getting to know each other better!
The only person you can ever marry is imperfect, unfinished, flawed and an absolute miracle. Janet Congo
Take the time to create a gratitude list. What qualities, what physical traits, and what about your mate’s heart do you value?
Plan a special evening. Bring your list to that evening. At the appropriate time, share your list with your mate.
Just a suggestion: Keep a copy of that list for yourself. Read it on one of those days when you find yourself irritated with you know who. Also when you are praying thank God for those qualities of your mate that are a blessing to you. Thank God that He is at work in both of you.
