Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would work for both of you. When you are the listener, show up with an interested and curious attitude. Be careful not to interrupt. After one of you has answered the questions, turn the tables and give the other partner their chance.
Have fun getting to know each other better!
Read the following statements and rate yourself.
0 = Never
1= Rarely
2= Some of the time
3= Most of the time
4= All the time
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 1. I practice hygiene habits that please my partner.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 2. 1 enjoy music as part of our lovemaking.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 3. I use specific words to rouse my partner.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 4. I use many forms of touching to arouse my partner.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 5. Massage is a part of my lovemaking technique.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 6. I know what kind of touch pleases my partner.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 7. I am aware of my partner’s preference for natural fragrances or other scents.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 8. I use meal time to begin the romantic process.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 9. My partner knows what I value about them as a lover.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 10. I look at my partner while making love.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 11. I have ways to intensify my mental concentration during lovemaking.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 12. I use the versatility of my mouth to arouse my partner.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 13. I wear clothes that make me feel attractive to my partner during our lovemaking.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 14. I take time to talk and hold my partner after our lovemaking.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 15. I initiate lovemaking some of the time.
P 1. _____P 2. _____ 16. I make our sexual relationship a priority on a regular basis.
After you have rated yourself, discuss your answers with each other.
