Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would work for both of you. When you are the listener, show up with an interested and curious attitude. Be careful not to interrupt. After one of you has answered the questions, turn the tables and give the other partner their chance.
Have fun getting to know each other better!
“If I could give you one gift, I would give you the ability to see yourself as I see you, so that you could see how truly loved you are.” God
Self-Reflection:
How would my life and my marriage be different if I truly stopped worrying and focusing on my imperfections? Write down at least 5 ways that it would be different.
As A Couple:
Create a list of ten of your spouse’s physical features that you love. Share your list out loud with each other. Refrain from making any negative or derogatory comments to your partner about yourself. Just listen, let their words in and thank them. Do this one person at a time.
How difficult was that for you to receive? Be vulnerable about what that felt like.
