- When you think about your parent’s (step-parent’s) marriage, can you remember an example of each spouse valuing the other’s strengths? How did they deal with each other’s weaknesses? How did that impact you?
- When you first fell in love with me what characteristics of mine were you attracted to?
- I’m certain there have been times these same characteristics have irritated you. What do you see as the downside of my upside?
- Do you believe that our marriage honors our individuality? If yes, give me an example that means something to you. If no, do you have any desire to grow in this way? What steps could we take?
