Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would work for both of you. When you are the listener, show up with an interested and curious attitude. Be careful not to interrupt. After one of you has answered the questions, turn the tables and give the other partner their chance.
- When you were a child what did you learn about promises? Were they consistently kept or were you often disappointed and let down? Give some examples.
- Has the threat of divorce been taken out of our conflict artillery? If not, would you be willing to consider removing it? What significance would that have to you personally?
- What does it mean to you that I have committed to love you for a lifetime?
- Do you have any place to go to receive unconditional love?