Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would work for both of you. When you are the listener, show up with an interested and curious attitude. Be careful not to interrupt. After one of you has answered the questions, turn the tables and give the other partner their chance.
Have fun getting to know each other better!
“When attempting to change old habits, it is normal to have lapses. Don’t allow them to become relapses!”
Dr. David and Janet Congo
Personal Meditation Time:
At the end of your life how would you like those closest to you to describe you? Choose fives words from the list below or add a word of your own choosing.
• Loving
• Joyous
• Peaceful
• Self-disciplined
• Available
• Understanding
• A person of faith
• Wise
• Humorous
• Courageous
• Tolerant
• A person of gratitude
• Stable
• Flexible
• Compassionate
• Creative
• Hospitable
• Gentle
• Loyal
• Kind Generous
• Competent
• A person of integrity
• Merciful
• Trustworthy
• Empathetic
• Optimistic
• Tactful
• Fair
• A person who took responsibility for his/her own happiness
• ——————
How are you doing on making choices that will move you towards your goals?
As A Couple:
Share your words with each other. Explain why they are important to you.
Pray with and for each other.
