Sometimes We Must Let Things Go

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Wisdom From The World: The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide that you are not going to stay where you are. In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity. – Albert Einstein If you are brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello. – Paulo Coclho If you can’t fly then […]

Change Happens, Ready or Not

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You don’t have to have it all figured out to move forward. Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If […]

3 Unromantic Beliefs That Help A Marriage Thrive

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I am capable of living without you even though I would prefer not to. In contradiction to the words of this popular tune “I can’t live, if living is without you” the best relationships are not based on desperation. If one is desperate for the other he/she believes that one’s lover will make life better […]

One Is A Whole Number

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Wisdom From The World: How you treat yourself is how you are inviting the world to treat you. Sometimes you don’t realize that you are actually drowning when you’re trying to be everyone else’s anchor. No one can change a person, but someone can be the reason for a person to change. We delight in […]

Be Unapologetically You

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Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would […]

5 Beliefs Demonstrating That I Value My Mate’s Uniqueness

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We are attracted to each other because of our differences. Then after we have fallen in love, we “pretend” that we are so similar. Anytime after six months to two years, that “temporary insanity” begins to fade.  We find ourselves in shock. What just happened?  We begin to doubt who this person really is, that […]

Appreciating Our Diversity As a Couple

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Wisdom From The World: “Strength lies in differences, not in similarities.” Stephen R. Covey “Let’s stop believing that our differences can make us superior or inferior to one another.” “Share our similarities, celebrate our differences.” M. Scott Peck “It is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept and celebrate […]

You Are Not Me And I Am Not You

Marriage Moments will include questions and/or exercises to start conversations. They will provide an an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better. Check in with your LifeMate to see if this is a good time for them to answer these questions. If it is not a convenient time schedule a later time that would […]

Do You Keep Disappearing In Your Relationship?

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It takes two to create a relationship, yet we don’t really learn that until we’ve fallen out of like with each other. Until we hit reality and find ourselves in the beginning stages of differentiation. When we are seeing the down side of our mate not just the up side. When we are sometimes disappointed […]

Love By Finding Your Voice

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Wisdom From The World: “Living with integrity means: Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values. Making choices based […]